
This creamy, plant-based twist on the popular "Marry Me Chicken" delivers all the comfort and flavor of the original while featuring protein-rich chickpeas and nutrient-packed kale. With a luxurious broth enriched by cream, Parmesan, and sun-dried tomatoes, this one-pot vegetarian soup is hearty enough to be a meal yet comes together in just 35 minutes. I discovered this recipe during a cold winter week when I wanted something indulgent but still nutritious.
Last month, I made this for my skeptical partner who typically equates "vegetarian" with "not filling enough." After one bowl, he was asking for the recipe before their bowls were empty. The secret is the combination of perfectly tender vegetables and rich, melted cheese that transforms simple ingredients into something truly craveworthy.
Essential Ingredients and Selection Tips
- Sun-Dried Tomatoes - Choose ones packed in oil with herbs for maximum flavor
- Chickpeas - No-salt-added canned varieties work perfectly; drain and rinse well
- Tuscan Kale - Also known as lacinato or dinosaur kale; its sturdy texture holds up well in soup
- Cream Cheese - Cube and bring to room temperature for smooth melting
- Parmesan - Freshly grated provides the best flavor; use pre-shredded in a pinch
The magic happens when the tangy sun-dried tomatoes and creamy elements meld together, creating a rich, satisfying broth that elevates humble chickpeas and kale to something truly special.
Detailed Cooking Instructions
- Step 1: Build Your Flavor Base
- Heat sun-dried tomato oil and butter in a large Dutch oven over medium heat until shimmering. This combination creates a flavor-packed foundation for sautéing the aromatics.
- Step 2: Develop Aromatics
- Add chopped shallot and cook until softened, about 2-3 minutes. Shallots provide a milder, sweeter flavor than onions, perfect for this soup's sophisticated profile.
- Step 3: Intensify the Tomato Elements
- Stir in sun-dried tomatoes, tomato paste, and minced garlic, cooking until deeply red and fragrant, about 2 minutes. This step concentrates and melds these key flavors.
- Step 4: Add Body and Nutrients
- Incorporate chickpeas, vegetable broth, chopped kale, and salt. The chickpeas provide protein and substance, while the kale adds color, texture, and nutritional value.
- Step 5: Simmer Thoughtfully
- Bring to a boil, then maintain a steady simmer for 15-20 minutes, stirring occasionally. This timing allows the kale to soften perfectly while the flavors meld together.
- Step 6: Enrich Off Heat
- Remove from heat before stirring in Parmesan, heavy cream, and cream cheese. This prevents the dairy from separating and ensures a smooth, velvety texture.
- Step 7: Finish with Freshness
- Stir in chopped fresh basil just before serving to add a bright, aromatic element that contrasts beautifully with the rich soup base.
- Step 8: Garnish Thoughtfully
- Divide among bowls and top with reserved Parmesan and a few small basil leaves for an elegant presentation that hints at the flavors within.
- Step 9: Serve Immediately
- This soup is at its creamy best when freshly made, though leftovers reheat well with gentle warming and stirring.
- Step 10: Store Properly
- Refrigerate leftovers in an airtight container for up to 3 days. Reheat gently over medium-low heat, stirring frequently to maintain the creamy texture.

I learned the importance of adding dairy off-heat after an early attempt resulted in a slightly grainy texture. Now I always remove the pot from the burner before stirring in the Parmesan, heavy cream, and cream cheese for perfectly smooth results.
Budget-Friendly Adaptation
This luxurious soup is surprisingly economical. Chickpeas cost significantly less than chicken breast, while delivering impressive protein. I often prepare my own chickpeas from dried beans, reducing the cost even further. Tuscan kale grows abundantly in my small garden plot, providing fresh greens nearly year-round. When fresh basil is too expensive, I substitute dried herbs or a smaller amount of basil paste, maintaining the essential flavor profile without the premium price.
Entertaining with Elegance
For dinner parties, I serve this soup as a sophisticated first course in small, shallow bowls with a swirl of extra virgin olive oil and a few strategically placed micro-greens. The vibrant green kale against the creamy background creates a visually stunning presentation that immediately elevates the dining experience. Guests are consistently surprised when I reveal the humble chickpea as the star ingredient, proving that plant-based dishes can possess remarkable elegance.

Seasonal Adaptations Year-Round
Throughout the year, I adjust this versatile soup to embrace seasonal produce. Spring versions feature tender young kale and fresh peas. Summer brings additions of garden-fresh zucchini and cherry tomatoes added during the final minutes. Autumn calls for diced butternut squash simmered until tender. Winter versions welcome hearty root vegetables like parsnips. The creamy base remains constant while seasonal vegetables keep the soup feeling fresh and relevant regardless of the month.
Nutritional Powerhouse in Disguise
This indulgent-tasting soup delivers remarkable nutritional benefits. One serving provides nearly a day's worth of vitamin K, thanks to the cruciferous vegetables. The combination of chickpeas, kale, and sun-dried tomatoes offers cancer-fighting compounds, while the cheese and heavy cream contribute calcium for bone health. Even the sun-dried tomatoes offer concentrated lycopene, known for its antioxidant properties. This balance of comfort and nutrition makes it perfect for serving to health-conscious guests or family members needing immune support.
Chef's Essential Tips
- For additional depth, sauté the chickpeas for a few minutes before adding to the soup
- If you prefer a thicker soup, lightly mash some of the chickpeas with a potato masher
- Tuscan kale holds up better than curly varieties, but either works
- For more protein, add a can of white beans along with the chickpeas
- A splash of white wine before adding the broth adds wonderful complexity
I've refined these tips through several iterations of this recipe, particularly after discovering that quickly sautéing the chickpeas deepens their flavor and improves the overall soup experience.
This Marry Me Chickpea Soup has become my go-to recipe when I want to impress without spending hours in the kitchen. There's something magical about the way the creamy broth, tender chickpeas, and hearty kale come together to create a soup that's far greater than the sum of its parts.

Final Tips
- For a dairy-free version, use coconut cream and dairy-free cream cheese
- Transform leftovers by pureeing a portion to create a thicker consistency
- For extra nutrition, stir in a handful of baby spinach just before serving
- A sprinkle of smoked paprika adds beautiful color and subtle smoky flavor
- Freeze in individual portions for easy grab-and-go lunches
Frequently Asked Questions
- → Why is it called 'Marry Me' soup?
- Similar to 'engagement chicken' or 'marry me pasta,' this soup gets its name from being so delicious that serving it might inspire a marriage proposal!
- → Can I use a different type of kale?
- Yes, curly kale works well too, though Tuscan (lacinato) kale has a milder flavor that pairs perfectly with the other ingredients.
- → How can I make this soup vegan?
- Substitute the dairy ingredients with plant-based alternatives: vegan butter, plant-based cream cheese, nutritional yeast for the Parmesan, and coconut cream for the heavy cream.
- → Can I use dried chickpeas instead of canned?
- Yes, but you'll need to cook 1 cup of dried chickpeas separately until tender before adding them to the soup. This takes about 1-2 hours after soaking overnight.
- → Is this soup freezer-friendly?
- Due to the dairy content, this soup may separate slightly when frozen and thawed. If freezing, do so before adding the cream, Parmesan, and cream cheese, then add those when reheating.